‘Let’s change tack for a second. You’ve worked all over the world, in some impressive positions in some impressive firms.’ The neck creeps into tentative extension, and the demure nod of the proud. ‘Have you ever heard business acquaintances say things like “just two to three more years”, or “when I get this next pay rise or promotion or sell the company or reach X million in the bank”, or “after we’ve finished the kitchen, bathroom, underground swimming pool…”, or “when the children have grown-up, moved out, had grandchildren…”, or “when we’ve upsized, downsized, retired… died–” ’